“I was so pissed off ! This was my worst experience ever with a client, and I got paid half my fee...”MALE ESCORTS AND MASSEURS: Ever been blown off - but not in the good way? Stiffed, but not in a way that feels nice? Or shafted up the ass - with a “bum” address?
THE GUYS WHO DO THIS SORT OF WORK ARE DECENT PEOPLE, AND DESERVE TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT AND DIGNITY.
Male Escorts and Masseurs across the USA have mobilized, and have taken charge of these negative situations. People listed here have made various mistakes, including no-show appointments, doors that wouldn’t be opened, sessions that were unpaid or shortchanged, and provider rules or limits that weren’t followed. This site is a reference document so that other Escorts and Masseurs will not be burned by the same problematic clients.
Why was this site created?Simply speaking, one too many clients blew one too many of us off. It was 2006. A bunch of us were sitting around sharing stories about deadbeat clients. It was then that the idea for this site was conceived. We had grown tired of negative experiences from sessions that wouldn’t materialize, especially when we knew that most people who see us have some of the best times of their lives. Until this site, no network had existed for men in the Escort and Masseur industry within the United States. So we took charge, both for ourselves and our brothers working alongside us in the industry. Male Escorts and Masseurs can now gain control of situations with the assholes who make it bad for the vast majority of clients who are “up and up.”
How the site works for youThis website is a tool, intended to help you prevent booking a no-show appointment, dealing with someone who doesn't pay you what you asked, or any other negative experience that may arise in this discreet, service-based world we inhabit. The main reason for the creation of this site was to help our fellow men who provide a QUALITY, and NECESSARY service for others.
Use this site when you are booking appointments. It will show phone numbers and personal information belonging to people who have been dicks (in the bad way, we mean) to other service providers. As you book an appointment with someone, check by searching for their phone number (hint: bookmark THIS PAGE) to see if their information is on this site. If nothing comes up, then that person is not showing any history of mishaps on this site. But if they do come up - well, read about their past history, and take it with a grain of salt. This site helps to warn you about them. If you are talking with the person on the phone, feel free to challenge them on their listed “infraction.” Why not? There are escort and massage sites where Service Providers get rated... now you can join the ranks of Masseurs and Escorts nationwide, who have taken control and minimized the assholes in their lives. Well, er... well, you know what we mean...
How the site works for you, Part TwoIf you’ve had a negative experience with a client, you can blacklist them, tell them about it, and ultimately recoup any unpaid fees. Escorts and Masseurs have been doing this through this website for years, and it really works! See the "Feedback" section of the site to read actual testimonials from other Service Providers.
Complete AnonymityThe BlacklistedJohn.com site will give you a Service Provider number. When blacklisting negative experiences with clients, only that Service Provider number will be visible on the site. No other information on you - not your working name, not your contact information, not your ads - NOTHING ELSE will appear on the site. This gives you complete anonymity as you blacklist someone. No one reviewing the site will know that YOU post on the blacklist (other than the client who you've posted about - and then only if you choose to inform him that you've done so).
TO ADD SOMEONE TO THIS SITE:First, you must register as a Service Provider on this site. It's free, simple to do, and literally takes two minutes of your time. Once your membership is activated (we will verify you to avoid spam and misuse of the site), then you may post new clients to the Blacklist and comment on other Service Provider’s posts.
When listing a client on the Blacklist, you will be asked for any contact information you have on the client, such as phone number, name, aliases, address, work info, location and month/year of the incident. You will also be asked to provide a brief description of what happened. For example, “Client gave fake address”; “Client said he/she didn’t have enough money”; “Client never showed for appointment” etc...
OK, SO YOU’VE BLACKLISTED SOMEONE. NOW WHAT?Now you’ll need to contact your ex-client - in whatever communication form you choose. Here is some suggested text, although it should be tailored to fit your particular situation:
- You _______ (explain what the client did wrong here, for example: You never showed up for your appointment, and you never called me back.)
As a result, I’ve had to publicly blacklist you. Your name, phone number and other information that I have about you is now listed on a website for escorts and masseurs worldwide. Of course, it’s also available for ANYONE who does an internet search on your phone number.
This site also lists other personal details I have regarding you, so that everyone else can see that, too.
The website is http://BlackListedJohn.com
I can remove your personal information from the site, but I’d like to be compensated as we had originally agreed. For information on that, you should carefully read the “Are YOU Blacklisted?” section on the site.
It’s really too bad that you had to let it come to this.
And then, you’re done. Don’t be surprised if the client who seemed to have fallen off the map, suddenly contacts you immediately after you’ve notified them! Be prepared to give them a way to pay you, but think twice about the payment method you’re willing to accept. Also, if you’re arranging a face to face meeting, at this point consider doing so in a public place like a restaurant or a cafe.
Once you've resolved things with that client, go back into the listing you've made and REMOVE it from the site. Everyone deserves a second chance to rectify a situation, and your client will have done so. It's up to you whether you choose to see that client again, but at the very least, the information must be removed from the site.
If by chance your now ex-client DOESN'T contact you, move on with things. You'll certainly want to notate in your own client base that you’ve had a problem with that person. You’ll probably feel better just having been able to share your negative experience with others. And rest assured that you’ve done a really good job, in helping to warn other guys in the biz.
Female Escorts and Masseuses:We are currently working on a separate site for female service providers. Please be patient while this gets crafted just for our industry sisters. If you’d like to be notified when the female version launches, please email us at email@example.com
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